We should focus on giving pleasure to our female partners

 I guess most women like the better hygiene of a circumcised penis, and many also find that cut just looks better.

As their partners, we cut men must focus on pleasing them, and not on our own pleasure. So we should not be trying to achieve our own orgasms, but instead provide gentle stimulation to her, so that she can fully enjoy without limits.

Simply think of your penis as some sort of super dildo for your girl. Forget about your own satisfaction, and do not be too rough and thrust hard when you sleep with her. This is especially a problem for guys who are severely desensitized (well, probably many of us are!), and almost numb. We should just give her what she wants and what she needs for herself.

You may check out Kristen O'Hara's website for more information, and the ressources there.

What dou you think? Leave a comment below, or contact me to chat if you prefer.

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